Books that are too-the-point and not loaded up with vague concepts that aren’t actually helpful, and don’t just address issues without giving solid solutions for them.

I need opinions on self-development! Please help!?

Im 18 years old and I’ve had sex with 5 girls in my life. Now here is the really strange part that I’m trying to figure out. All 5 of these girls approached me first in someway either wanting a relationship or just sex. Ive never approached a girl before in my life and i don’t know why i haven’t to be honest with you. I love women and love everything about them yet i cant figure out why i don’t approach them. I would love to hear any advice or any comments on this topic. Thanks for your help

You know, guys like Denis Waitley, John Maxwell, Jim Rohn, Robert Kiyosaki, Robert Allen,
Anthony Robbins, Wayne Dyer, etc. f there is only one guy you could read or study, who would it be?